Revisit your own adolescence -- Be a boundary -- Get connected -- Face your guilt and fear -- Be united in your parenting -- Be an integrated parent -- For single parents -- For stepparents -- Adolescence : a time of transition and preparation -- A period of momentous change -- Teens think differently -- Separating from parents -- From earthly to eternal parent -- Boys and girls are different -- The influence of culture -- Dig beneath your teen's problem -- Use the four anchors of boundary setting -- Don't get derailed -- Consequences 101 -- Academic problems -- Aggressive behavior -- Alcohol, drugs, and dependencies -- Argumentativeness -- Breaking agreements -- Chores -- Clothing -- Curfew violations -- Cutting and self-mutilation -- Deception and lying -- Defiance -- Detaching from the family in unhealthy ways -- Disrespect -- Driving and cars -- God and spirituality -- Ignoring parents -- Impulsive behavior -- Internet -- Money -- Moodiness -- Parties -- Peers -- Phone -- Runaways -- Sexual involvement -- Silence.